Does it match the standards? Did I do it right? Will I get judged for this?
These are some of the questions that frequents the mind of a perfectionist.
whether other people judge them or not, they do a great job at judging themselves and seeing to it that their self-esteem drops down a great deal. "If it's anywhere less than perfect, why do it at all?!" is a feeling that they must be way familiar with. The flaws that you're so worried about, chances are that they might not even get noticed by others. It is impossible to have everything done flawlessly. Even machines make mistakes!
You don't have to be perfect! No, there isn't that pressure! NO! NO! NO!
you have it all wrong.. The world will not devour itself if you aren't perfect! Do not be too hard on yourself, your imperfections deserve to be embraced! Imperfections, in fact, add to the beauty.
They make you more human, more relatable! There's power in feeling secure about being vulnerable.
Believe in your power! Throw that pedantic perfectionist in you into the bin.. Release that sense of control, embrace the flaws and enjoy the process!
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